But how can you tell when it is you talking and not your ego?
Here are some simple suggestions (and if you have not yet reached this stage, they are wonderful goals to try to begin to reach towards - when you give up the need to be right, many things change:
- It’s impossible to argue with you
- You can keep your cool no matter what
- Others come to realize that you know that your opinion – even though you may stick to it through thick and thin - is not more important than theirs. That goes a long way to improving communication
- Your ego is no longer invested in proving anything to the other person
- You feel great no matter what the other person decides to believe
- You don’t need to convince anyone of anything, no matter how much you believe in it
- You can keep your belief about whatever it is you are right about, but you don’t need to be bothered about proving it to the other person
- No more power struggles
- You give up the need to control others’ behavior, thoughts, actions and reactions
- You know it is preferable for both to win, not just you
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