We go to inspiring seminars seeking to connect to our soul. We attend retreats, go to church, to mass, to temple, or to an ashram, we practice yoga, pray, or chant mantras, meditate, become mindful, and read books by those who profess to move us in the direction of our soul.
And then we walk down the street and see the Eastern European woman holding out her hand (in our Western European country) for money. or we see the South or Central American illegal immigrant working surreptitiously in the garden or house of our neighbour. Or we run into the colleague at work who always has the knack of annoying us. Or we are faced with a recalcitrant teen who happens to live under our roof. Or we have yet another call from our aging parent who once again repeats the same story that we've heard so many times before. Or we are greeted by an out-of-sorts spouse as we arrive at home.
And what do we do? Amazingly, all those inspiring seminars, retreats, church sermons, ashrams, yoga practices, prayers, mantras, meditations, mindfulness, and books fly out of our mind, and we lose our patience. Or we raise our eyebrows and make a face. Or we think thoughts of criticism, judgement, moral superiority, or even anger.
These moments - these situations we run across almost on a daily basis (these or others that are similar) - are our greatest opportunities to nourish and move closer to the soul. Why? Because at these moments we can remember to be kind and then practice it just one more time. As King Solomon put it: your own soul is nourished when you are kind.
And then we walk down the street and see the Eastern European woman holding out her hand (in our Western European country) for money. or we see the South or Central American illegal immigrant working surreptitiously in the garden or house of our neighbour. Or we run into the colleague at work who always has the knack of annoying us. Or we are faced with a recalcitrant teen who happens to live under our roof. Or we have yet another call from our aging parent who once again repeats the same story that we've heard so many times before. Or we are greeted by an out-of-sorts spouse as we arrive at home.
And what do we do? Amazingly, all those inspiring seminars, retreats, church sermons, ashrams, yoga practices, prayers, mantras, meditations, mindfulness, and books fly out of our mind, and we lose our patience. Or we raise our eyebrows and make a face. Or we think thoughts of criticism, judgement, moral superiority, or even anger.
These moments - these situations we run across almost on a daily basis (these or others that are similar) - are our greatest opportunities to nourish and move closer to the soul. Why? Because at these moments we can remember to be kind and then practice it just one more time. As King Solomon put it: your own soul is nourished when you are kind.
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Also visit my book website: www.gabriellakortsch.com where you may download excerpts or read quotations from any of my books. My latest book Emotional Unavailability & Neediness: Two Sides of the Same Coin is now also out globally on Amazon in print & Kindle. You can also obtain it (or any of my other books) via Barnes & Noble.
Books by Dr. Gabriella Kortsch (English)
Books by Dr. Gabriella Kortsch (Spanish & German - coming spring 2015)
Note: If you are wondering why this blog is now only appearing on alternate days (excluding Sat/Sun), it is because I also post on my other blog on the others days. That other blog is Rewiring the Soul so named for my first book. Click here to visit the blog and/or to sign up for the feed.
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Angefangen mit Rewiring the Soul - auf Deutsch: Deine Seele und Du (Blog hier), werden meine Bücher auf Amazon ab Frühjahr 2015 erhaltbar sein.
Empezando con Rewiring the Soul - en español: Reconectar con el Alma (blog aquí), se podrán encontrar mis libros en Amazon en español en todo el mundo a partir de la primavera de 2015.
Books by Dr. Gabriella Kortsch (English)

Books by Dr. Gabriella Kortsch (Spanish & German - coming spring 2015)
Note: If you are wondering why this blog is now only appearing on alternate days (excluding Sat/Sun), it is because I also post on my other blog on the others days. That other blog is Rewiring the Soul so named for my first book. Click here to visit the blog and/or to sign up for the feed.
Find more free articles from my monthly newsletters as well as more information about my work at Advanced Personal Therapy
My blog posts are also featured on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Google+, Pinterest & you can find me on Instagram
Meine Bücher auf Deutsch Frühjahr 2015 / Mis libros en español primavera 2015
Angefangen mit Rewiring the Soul - auf Deutsch: Deine Seele und Du (Blog hier), werden meine Bücher auf Amazon ab Frühjahr 2015 erhaltbar sein.
Empezando con Rewiring the Soul - en español: Reconectar con el Alma (blog aquí), se podrán encontrar mis libros en Amazon en español en todo el mundo a partir de la primavera de 2015.
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