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Tuesday, March 10, 2015

One Huge Tip For Dealing With Heated Arguments

Arguments come about - evidently - because we disagree with another person or several persons or many others. Why? We want to demonstrate that we are right. We want to prove that we are right.  Needing to be right is the ego (a part of our psyche) trying to make us lose sight of peace, love and truth. Giving Up the Need to Be Right is an entire article about this subject. 

But in today's post, I simply want to prevail on you to keep your eyes on truth. In a marriage or love relationship if we are not aware of ourselves - without awareness of ourselves - as the heat of an argument escalates, it will be impossible to keep our eyes on anything other than our need to be right. Therefore, needing to be right is all we focus on if we are not remaining aware and conscious. This means - simply put - that our chances for resolving in a spirit of peace, love, and truth are low, as opposed to the very high chances we would have to achieve that if we remain aware. Publius Syrius very rightly said: In a heated argument we are apt to lose sight of the truth, but if he had added that by remaining aware this has excellent chances of not occurring, he would have been even more correct.

I choose to assume that you are very interested in maintaining a high level of peace, love and truth in your relationships. In that case, how much practice are you putting into remaining aware at all times?


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