That is not a fun title.
Taking responsibility for your unhappiness sounds like there's no one and nothing left to blame. And that - of course - is what this is all about.
When you are unhappy, it is because you have chosen to be so due to someone not behaving the way you wanted them to, or something not turning out the way you might have it expected to. So life did not go your way. Things simply weren't the way you wanted them to be.
- your partner forgot your wedding anniversary
- your boss did not promote you
- you wanted to go to the beach and when you opened the curtains, you saw it was raining
- you expected to be able to find the car of your dreams for the budget you had stipulated, and then realized it would cost much more. So now you have to make do with a lesser car
- you thought the person you had dinner with the first time two nights ago would call you by today, and they have not done so
- you expected your son to help you with the garden this weekend and he went out with his friends instead
- you expected your best friend to help you set up your party, and it turns out she forgot!
And so - understandably - you are unhappy.
And of course you believe you are unhappy because of what the other person did or did not do, or because of the situation that did not turn out the way you would have liked it to.
And that is precisely where you need to begin to take responsibility for your unhappiness.
By taking responsibility for your happiness. So if you are unhappy about something, you are the one who can change how you feel. Either by choosing to change how you feel about something. how you think about something, how you view something, or by choosing to do something that will raise your energy to levels where you are able to once again feel happy.
Your happiness is in your hands. If you leave it in the hands of the acts and deeds of others, or in the manner in which situations in your life turn out, you are not free.
Freedom implies being in charge of your happiness.